Advice for Bachelors
Techniques for ‘popping the question’ range From the zany to intimate and personal. Choosing a private moment will suffice for one couple while being in the center of a large crowd will please others.
Article by Karen Sturtevant
She is the love of your life. You’ve discussed marriage, window-shopped for rings, and joked about children. It’s time to propose! What are the rules? Is there a right way? Should parents be notified beforehand? A survey by Korbel Champagne found that 68 percent of Americans agree there is no right (or wrong) way to propose. Relax and let your heart lead the way.
Keep in mind her preferences. What would she find sentimental and meaningful? Would a favorite restaurant, park, or first meeting place be the setting for this life-changing event? Imagine, before dessert is served, a waiter arriving with a perfect long-stemmed red rose with a sparkling diamond engagement ring nestled inside the petals. Picture, while snowshoeing or skiing, seeing ‘Marry Me’ spelled out in roses—this was done by one of our friends! Using children’s letter magnets, spelling the question on the refrigerator will certainly be cause for celebration!
To kneel or not to kneel. This tradition dates back to the days of Knights and chivalry. Even in today’s age of rushing and running, this gesture evokes romance and tenderness. A sure winner.
Tell her why. Even if he’s the strong and silent type, this occasion calls for some well-thought out words. In the moment of unabashed emotion, hearing why she is the chosen one will be remembered as a wonderfully romantic sentiment. A simple “Will you marry me?” will be enriched and made exceptional with an intimate and personal script from the heart.
The in-laws. A blessing from future in-laws dates back generations and proper etiquette states that parental permission is advisable. This announcement can be done before the actual proposal or jointly after she accepts. An engagement affects parents and family members and even the most fastidious of future mother-in-laws will be impressed.
The ring. Gold or platinum? Princess, round, or emerald cut? There are as many characteristics of engagement rings as individual preferences. Some gentlemen opt for choosing on their own while others shop together after the question has been answered. Window-shopping is free and invaluable information can be gathered for future reference.
Techniques for ‘popping the question’ range from the zany to intimate and personal. Choosing a private moment will suffice for one couple while being in the center of a large crowd will please others. Few moments are as thrilling and memorable! Planning the details and speaking from the soul is the formula for a successful marriage proposal and the beginning of the next stage of your lives together.
